Funerals

We, at St. Thomas the Apostle, understand that if you have just experienced the death of a loved one you may be feeling confused, sad, stunned, and overwhelmed by your loss. We are here to offer consolation, comfort, and hope.

As Catholics, we believe that at death “life is changed, not ended.” Death is a passage to a new and more abundant life, and ultimately to resurrection and eternal life with God. While death brings an experience of sadness and loss, faith provides comfort and strength. As ambassadors of God's love, it is a time for us to support and console one another, especially in our belief in the gift of eternal life. When, as Christians, we encounter death, we are drawn to prayer; to pray for those who have died, and to pray for those who have experienced the loss of a loved one.

In the funeral liturgy, the Church emphasizes life. The Resurrection of the Dead is the theme, and the scripture readings, hymns, and prayers reflect the overall tone of expectant joy.​

When we celebrate death in the Church, if the loved one is a baptized Catholic, it is customary to celebrate a Mass of Christian burial. However, sometimes there are circumstances that may allow for a funeral service outside of the Mass.

We have several resources to help you better understand Catholic beliefs about death and to help you plan the funeral celebration for a loved one or for yourself.  Please review the information available so we can answer your questions and assist you in identifying your preferences in assuring that the funeral ceremony captures your faith and hope in the resurrection as well as reflects your life or the life of a loved one as a disciple of Christ.

Please contact us at the Parish Office at (413) 739-4779 if you'd like to discuss any aspect of planning with our pastoral staff.